Stolen Penny’s
Stolen Penny’s

A hub for parents, children and families

Every child is priceless, and no Penny should be stolen.

Penny’s watercolor and ink drawing of a girl with long dark hair, seen from behind, in a pink sleeve with rust-red strokes and blue jeans, surrounded by grey washes and scratched lines.
Drawn by Penny

Stolen Penny’s is a nonprofit effort started by Tarin Swain and her daughter, Penny. It is a place where parents and children share their testimonies about social and physical transitions in their school districts, and where anyone who wants to detransition, or to come out of that space, can find support.

The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full.

John 10:10 (NIV)

How it started

It began with a survey on Penny’s first day of sixth grade.

On the first day of sixth grade, Conejo Valley Unified School District gave Penny a “get to know me” survey. Through what seemed like a simple, innocent get-to-know-you survey, she was introduced to the whole transgender ideology. Penny came home that first day and talked to her mom about it. Her transition started with that survey on day one, and it only grew stronger from there, as teachers agreed to keep her new name and pronouns from her parents.

Penny has since come out of it, and now she wants to help other kids do the same.

Penny smiling outside her front door on her first day of public school, wearing a yellow top, ripped jeans and black sneakers.
Penny’s first day of public school, sixth grade

In their own words

A mother and daughter, telling the truth.

Tell your child the truth because it is the most loving thing you can do when they are confused and believing lies.

Tarin, Penny’s mom

I am still a work in progress but I now have hope for a better future.

Penny

We are still on a journey of healing, and it truly is a detox from the public school doctrine.

Tarin, Penny’s mom

Read both statements in full

Then & now

Penny came out of it.

The “then” photos cover Penny’s first year in public school through her time transitioning at school. The “now” photos show Penny today.

Now: Penny in her graduation cap and gown.Then: Penny during her school years.
Then & now, 1 of 5. Drag the penny, or focus the photo and use the arrow keys.
Now: Penny today.Then: Penny during her school years.
Then & now, 2 of 5. Drag the penny, or focus the photo and use the arrow keys.
Now: Penny today.Then: Penny during her school years.
Then & now, 3 of 5. Drag the penny, or focus the photo and use the arrow keys.
Now: Penny today.Then: Penny during her school years.
Then & now, 4 of 5. Drag the penny, or focus the photo and use the arrow keys.
Now: Penny receiving her diploma on stage.Then: Penny during her school years.
Then & now, 5 of 5. Drag the penny, or focus the photo and use the arrow keys.

He has made everything beautiful in its time. He has also set eternity in the human heart; yet no one can fathom what God has done from beginning to end.

Ecclesiastes 3:11 (NIV)
Tarin and Penny standing together in front of an American flag after the town hall.
Penny and her mom, Tarin, after the Moms for America MomVote Town Hall with JD Vance, October 15, 2024, outside Philadelphia

Speaking out together

Penny and Tarin tell their story in public, side by side.

Together they spoke at the Moms for America MomVote Town Hall with JD Vance. Tarin has also spoken before the Ventura City Council and appeared as a guest on The Matt Gaetz Show on One America News.

“We cannot win a spiritual war with earthly weapons. We must first surrender fully to Jesus and then by the power of the Holy Spirit walk in the authority that God gives us to stop evil and restore others to their Creator. I am on a restoration mission.”

— Tarin

Join us

Three ways to help.

Share your story

Parent, student or someone coming out of it yourself: your testimony about what happened in your school district matters.

Share Your Story

Book Penny & Tarin

Invite a mother and daughter to share, together, what happened at school and how Penny found her way back.

Book to Speak

Donate

Help keep this effort going. Every penny counts, and $1 is a hundred of them.

Donate

Donate

Every penny counts.

$1 is 100 pennies. Pick an amount and watch it add up.